Category Archives: Tools & Resources for Families

HighPointe Offers Free Educational Presentations

HighPointe Services is offering two free financial education presentations for families and guardians who have a family member with disabilities.

Presentation Topic:

Three disciplines impact your family’s quest to protect your assets and children:
Disability Benefits, Financial Planning and Legal considerations

Wednesday, January 17, 2018

HighPointe Services 7323 S. Alton Way Unit A Centennial, CO 80112

Doors open at 5:30pm, Presentation at 6:00pm
~Refreshments provided~

*RSVP by Tuesday, January 16th to 303.898.7656*
Childcare provided only by reservation: contact Michelle, 303.221.3222

Three disciplines impact your family’s quest to protect your assets and children:
Disability Benefits, Financial Planning and Legal considerations

Tuesday, January 30, 2018

       HighPointe Services 1544 Oakridge Drive Fort Collins, CO 80525

Doors open at 5:30pm, Presentation at 6:00pm
~Refreshments provided~

*RSVP by Monday, January 29th to 303.898.7656*
Childcare provided only by reservation: contact Christina, 970.377.9949


Melissa J. Edelman, CLU, ChSNC Melissa has served over twenty-five years in the financial services industry. She works extensively with special needs families to plan the entire family’s financial future with an eye to the lifetime of the special needs child. She is a parent of two adopted children, one with high functioning special needs.

Betty Lehman, Disability Advisor Betty has nearly thirty years as an advocate for special needs individuals and their families. While raising her own son with disabilities, she spearheaded fourteen state statutes, creating millions of dollars in funding for benefits for those with disabilities and their families.

Melissa Edelman is a registered representative of and offers securities, investment advisory and financial planning services through MML Investors Services, LLC. member SIPC. 4600 S. Ulster St. Suite 1200, Denver, CO 80237. 303-300-4341. CRN201407-1620001

What is Care Coordination? What is a Shared Plan of Care?

What is Care Coordination?

Care coordination is a patient & family-centered, assessment-driven, continuous, team-based activity designed to meet the bio-psychosocial needs of children and youth, while enhancing person & family care-giving skills and capabilities. But what does that mean?

What is a Shared Plan of Care?

A shared plan of care is a document that a family and their child’s care neighborhood can use to keep everyone working together as a child grows. Learn more about this essential communication tool.

How to get a Shared Plan of Care

A good first step towards finding quality Care Coordination and beginning to develop a Shared Plan of Care is to ask. Ask others: Ask primary care, ask specialty care, ask other providers, ask families who have found such help.

How to use a Shared Plan of Care

A shared plan of care used to support a child with a special health care needs will grow and change as it is used across the care team . Learn more about how to best use a shared plan of care.

Setting Goals

Working as a team to understand the whole child, their medical needs, and family goals ensures that each family is able to move forward in the daily care of their children. Learn more about setting goals in a shared plan of care.


Learn more about Care Coordination and Shared Plans of Care by watching this short videos.  Note: the topic information will load automatically after the completion of the previous video.

Watch for more information about Shared Plans of Care in future posts.



How To Care For Special Needs Children After A Divorce

Thank you to Lindsey Parlin for graciously volunteering to submit this information regarding a very important subject – Tom Rose

Submitted by Lindsey Parlin,, Attorney –

Every year, thousands of parents go through the difficulties of divorce. With the divorce, comes the challenges of caring for children in a way that ensures they continue to thrive. When the children in the family are special needs kids, the challenges are even more difficult.

Children are unique individuals. Even emotionally mature adults have a difficult transition when faced with fear, stress, raw emotion, and changes that are inevitable with divorce. This is even harder for a special needs child.

When the adults, attorneys, and courts are working to ensure the health and well-being of the special needs child who has parents going through a divorce, it is often difficult to determine which arrangement is the most beneficial for the child. The fact is, the best interest of the child is not a set formula. It is a process that will require constant monitoring and adjusting. It will require two loving adults who put the needs of their child before their own.

Making decisions

All children have certain basic needs that are addressed in the divorce courts. These include:

  • A stable home
  • The love and support of their parents
  • Food, clothing, and other necessities
  • Education
  • Social interaction
  • Medical care

Special needs children have these same needs, though magnified many times over. A special needs child may require a special diet, equipment to assist them in mobility, therapy, tutoring, monitored medication, special transportation, and much more. While both parents support the child, it is important that one parent has the decision-making power for the special needs child after a divorce. This is something the parents, with the help of their attorneys, will address and decide together. Both parents must clearly understand which spouse has the legal right to make decisions regarding the child’s medical and educational needs. That is not to say that both parents should not work together to come to the conclusions, but at the end of the day, one parent has the authority to make the final decision.

Custody and support

It is hard for any child that is living in a divorced home to alternate between each parent. This transition into a new environment and new routine might make a child feel confused and uncomfortable. A regular schedule can be hard to maintain when everyone is first adjusting to a new living arrangement. However, this lack of organization is unacceptable for a special needs child. Consistency is key. The living arrangements must be set, and both parents must abide by them. Child support is critical for the special needs child. He or she has needs that cannot wait while mom and dad figure out how to co-parent effectively without having a power struggle.

The parenting plan must include arrangements for the extra expenses that come with a special needs child and the additional care that is often required.

Financial planning for the future

All parents must address the financial needs of their child as they mature into young adults and start to prepare for college. College funds and other financial issues are generally addressed and put into place when the child is young so that the funds are available when the child reaches the age when they are needed.

The special needs child will have financial needs that include the same expenses as other children and often much more. Depending on their physical needs, a college may require special transportation, tools, and equipment. You do not know what options will be available for them 15 years from now. For that reason, it is wise to contribute to your child’s financial accounts while they are young.

Divorcing your spouse does not relieve you from your parental obligations.

Attorney Lindsey Parlin is a dedicated family law and criminal defense attorney. Her hard work has earned her the title of “Favorite Local Attorney,” and with good reason. Lindsey provides free legal consultations for all types of legal matters. She extends her hours to include evenings and weekends to be more accessible to her clients. Her impressive credentials include work in the highest legal offices in her county. She is a trained mediator and a Child and Family Investigator for Colorado’s 5th and 11th Judicial Districts.

Making Colorado a better place for children and youth with special health care needs